"Letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all. When there's a big disappointment, we don't know if that's the end of the story. It may just be the beginning of a great adventure. Life is like that. We don't know anything. We call something bad; we … [Read more...] about The Winds of Change: Introducing Project Dandelion
BlogA few years ago, I was just like everyone else I knew. I was on the corporate career track at a company I loved, caring for my aging parents, and taking life’s adventures one day at a time with my soul mate at my side. I had a plan. I knew where I was going, how long it would take to get there, and had the action items to propel me towards my life goals.
Holy Hannah. It's been a hot minute. How ya doin? Today I am officially one day older than D was when he died. I know it's a strange thing to find hovering around in my awareness this far into my AfterLoss journey, but here it is, just hanging out. A few years ago, … [Read more...] about One More Day
All The Beautiful Things: Episode 1 Y'all remember my find the beauty in everything motto I told you about last week, right? Well, last night I found plenty of it. The Boise Valley JACL (Japanese American Citizens League) hosted a vigil for the Asian American hate crime … [Read more...] about Love, Boise
Hi, Friends. It's been a while. A long while. As we move from the quiet, restorative energy of winter into all the life-giving energy of spring, I've spent quite a bit of time thinking and reflecting on my journey. One of the core components of my "grief recovery project" … [Read more...] about Changing Lanes
A Keeping It Real Post No time to read? Check out the YouTube video. Although you're already here so why not continue? https://youtu.be/EDaAaBThQJI Welcome to this episode of Grief and Random Weird Stuff This Widow Thinks About. About two years into my life in The … [Read more...] about Grief and New Year’s Purging
A Keeping It Real Post Baggage (v. 2) Heaving my suitcase onto the bed I drop it on the floor instead, Oops, I forgot it’s full of laments for my dead. Why did I pack the weight of grief and fear when all I want to do is be light and clear? Running away and starting … [Read more...] about Don’t Be Invisible (Can You See Me Now?)